Tuesday, December 16, 2008
Have you ever wondered why and how do you have the friends that you have now? I think that there is a reason why God put the friends that we have now into our life. Whether we can learn something from them, or we are there to teach them something, there is a reason behind it. However, how many people who we call as 'friends' are truly our real friends who are there to support us, to lead us, to teach us and also to care and love us. How fortunate are we that God has given us true and real friends? And even more fortunate that we have good and close friends that we can share our feelings and thoughts with. Do you have anyone who you can trust and share everything with? If you do, be thankful and cherish every moment spent with him/her. Every moment spend is a moment to treasure and kept as another memory together. There are times when I get easily bored with people but when I think that there are chance that I might not be seeing him/her anymore, I learn to enjoy every moment spent. However, not all friends around you are good for you. if your friend do not 'benefit' you or bring out your good side, why still hang on the friendship that have no future? learn to throw away friends that don't bring you any good, but instead harm you. I once heard from my pastor saying that friends who always discourage you, overpower you, and stop you from spreading your wings to fly are type of friends that you should not be spending and wasting your time on. You might not realize it but there ARE friends that do not want you to grow. What I'm trying to say is, please be smart in choosing your friends. Don't keep friends that will stop you from spreading your wings to fly up high~
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i noe i seldom give comment to ppl like tis.bt see this blog post of yours really give me a strong feeling.
i really wondered how,why, i have the friends i had until now.
and how some of my friends lost contact so fast and some still be my friends and keep in touch after 4 or 5 years.
i think in life we always have real friends, and NORMAL friends who only be with you because they just want to have fun in their life and at the same time influence you to go with them,or sometimes even stop you from going further.
but think in another way,tak semestinya oli b fren wif those who bring benefits to us.
we noe who are the one who treat us good and who r d one who treat us bad,
i tink keeping a distance is better than totaly breaking the friendship.
friendship cannot be weigh by weighing scale,but by heart.It is all up to us who want who want to be by our side.
oops.i think i talk too much oledi swt.suddenly got the "feel"...hehe..
anyway,hope our friendship is true.same goes to other uni SA students =p.
Friends Forever!